Crowning energy - A time for healing
Affirmation - "When one is healed, all are healed."
You current romantic situation will require some healing. Neither of you is ready yet to take the next step forward in your connection. You don't need to bring old wounds and traumas into your new relationship, so it's better to have those healed and closed completely first, before you can enter into a new partnership with someone who doesn't have to suffer of what someone else had done to you. It's better to to cleanse and purify your heart before you enter a new relationship.
His energy - On his side I can see that he is defensive, he's been hurt before and he's guarding and protecting the most sensitive side of himself, his heart and he doesn't want to make himself vulnerable again. He is non-committal and he prefers to have one-off or casual connections with women, he avoids things getting too deep right now. The 6 of swords is about him healing his emotions and moving on from something in his past, like a past relationship which caused him too much pain, hurt, stress and negativity. The waters, which represent his emotions, of the 6 of Swords are clear so he is on his journey of recovery and healing. He will eventually leave the swords behind him and move on to his future with a purified heart.
Her energy - There is some sense of sadness and loss, she is missing him dearly. She could be feeling left alone and hurt by his harsh actions or words. The Page of Pentacles reversed is him denying commitment and the Page of Swords - he might have cut her off too sharply and quickly, or ended their connection too abruptly. If he cut you off all of the sudden, it was his fear kicking in and nothing to do with you personally. You wanting to get closer to him only triggered an emotional reaction he wasn't able to cope with, and maybe he didn't even understand that what he's doing is hurting you. By avoiding closeness with you, he's avoiding future pain and more hurt for himself.
Energy between them - Pay Attention to the Red Flags - "The signs are cautioning you."
I would say that the red flags will be about this man suffering in silence and not dealing efficiently with his past wounds. He bottles them all up and in some situations there could be a spill over effect and projection to the people around him. If he is hurting your feelings, it is because he is hurting himself even if he doesn't want to show it. Pay attention to the red flags about him being toxic to himself and to you. He is emotionally damaged and his words and reactions are erratic and no corresponding to the real life context he is living in. He relives his past trauma which is hurting him even more, but he doesn't know how to cope with releasing and healing it.
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